fix: shutdown order (#3073)

* fix: race condition in Daemon.stop()

* fix: do not stop Daemon on context leave

* fix: remove duplicate Daemons.term calls

* feat: honor dependency order when shutting terminating Daemons

* fixes, and remove started

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Co-authored-by: Aiden McClelland <me@drbonez.dev>

sdk/base/lib/Effects.ts

@@ -67,7 +67,7 @@ export type Effects = {
     packageId?: PackageId
     callback?: () => void
   }): Promise<StatusInfo>
-  /** indicate to the host os what runstate the service is in */
+  /** DEPRECATED: indicate to the host os what runstate the service is in */
   setMainStatus(options: SetMainStatus): Promise<null>
 
   // dependency

sdk/base/lib/types.ts

@@ -44,10 +44,7 @@ export namespace ExpectedExports {
    * This is the entrypoint for the main container. Used to start up something like the service that the
    * package represents, like running a bitcoind in a bitcoind-wrapper.
    */
-  export type main = (options: {
-    effects: Effects
-    started(onTerm: () => PromiseLike<void>): PromiseLike<null>
-  }) => Promise<DaemonBuildable>
+  export type main = (options: { effects: Effects }) => Promise<DaemonBuildable>
 
   /**
    * Every time a service launches (both on startup, and on install) this function is called before packageInit